It’s intense. But if you’re not into it, you wouldn’t understand it anyway. I have met a few women in my time that truly liked it and I think they liked it for the same reason. You can actually give a woman an orgasm during anal by stimulating her clitoris and the result can be quite complex and different than an orgasm from straight sex. I would never pressure a woman who didn’t want to do it. If they don’t want, they don’t want. And with the women who wanted to try it (for the first time) I’ve never tried to hurt her. You can go really slow and it’s not so bad at all for her. She’ll have a better experience that way and be more open to trying it again.